I used to think that death extinguished life.
I thought it was a weed,
creeping over the breathing things,
crippling the moving things.
I thought it dragged us into the desert,
slowly for a long time,
until it sped,
until it tore and ripped us.
I thought dying was a savage thing –
I used to think that death was a taker
and that it took what was dear
and hid it in the thorns and underbrush.
And then I watched it at work.
And it was a weed,
and it crept over what I loved
what we loved
And it crippled what once sprang and shuffled.
Death was not slow,
though I imagine it had been slower for 67 years
(we just didn’t notice then).
But in it’s speed and unforgiveness,
despite the taking –
I saw no savagery.
And though I was lost,
I was not lost alone.
So then I began to think that maybe there was more life in death than I thought.
There was laughter
defying the dimness and the silence
Tears and smiles and sighs of relief
from nestled-together family.
A Healer who long ago cast out the fear.
We are found people
He found us in our grief
He found us tearing our clothes
and rolling in ash
lifted us up
and draped us in white
and fed us clean water
and returned us our joy.